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THE QUESTION :

I am expecting my third child, and my oldest is 11 and youngest is 17 months old. We are short on space. What do I do when the new baby is born--how do I make it work with the baby and going-to-be-2-year-old in the same room? Did I mention that it’s a small room?
 
THE ANSWER:

Sleep trumps everything, so let’s talk about that  first. If your toddler wakes up every time the baby fusses, consider keeping your newborn's crib in your room until he sleeps through the night. We kept our twins in a crib in our bedroom until each was sleeping through the night (otherwise we'd have had their 3-year-old brother to placate at 2 am as well!). And don’t even think of moving your toddler to his big sib's room now; his world is shaken up enough.

When you do move the new baby into the toddler’s small room, think "up," as in a plate shelf along all four walls for storing stuffed animals and breakable figurines, hooks on the walls, and over-the-door shoe bags (see www.stacksandstacks.com) for toys, socks, hair doodads and other compact kid stuff.

Try to hang onto as much floor space as possible, with double-duty furniture like low storage benches (with a safety latch), under-crib boxes, and a tall armoire if your closet's not big enough. As for the closet, install double rods since kids' clothes are so tiny you can easily get two rows (even three). Elfa closet systems with sliding baskets save space and make it easy to switch clothes by season; check out www.containerstore.com.

Try to give your toddler a little place of her own in the room, maybe with a small round rug and a low basket of books; www.ikea.com has cute, cheap things.  And don't be too quick to move her to a big-kid bed; see if you can borrow a crib (in good condition) for your baby. It's hard enough having to share your space with a squalling, stinky intruder, but having to give up your bedtime haven too?



Andrea Messina
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On October 21, 2008 12:02 AM

These are great ideas, Andrea. Luckily, we have enough room to keep my fighting duo in their separate corners (rooms!), but the products you listed here would be great for organizing any kid's room, and even playrooms. Thanks for pointing me in a great direction!

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