Try speaking with your child's teacher about the struggles he's having with homework. In first or second grade, homework should be reinforcing the lessons covered in class during the day and should not be stressful. If your son is having a hard time, it may indicate a challenge that needs educational support.

I also suggest that you explain to your son that your mind works differently than his. Be honest. Let him know that sometimes it's hard for you to explain the schoolwork to  him. Perhaps his other parent could take over this role, and you could provide support in other areas that are not as difficult for you.