It is critically important that schools and families work together. I suggest you talk to his teacher or the school administrator who handled the cheating -- assuming it was discovered.

There are actually two important questions rolled into your one: what to do about a bullying situation and how to talk to your teenager.

How old is that boy at school? Obviously his behavior is inappropriate at any age, but it may need to be handled differently if he is younger or older.

Every mom wants to do the best for her child. And most parents are also quick to assume responsibility and guilt for any challenge.

It sounds like your daughter may need some encouragement and reassurance. Try sitting with her and helping her along the way. If an assignment is long, break it into smaller, more manageable sections so she can see the light at the end of the tunnel.