While some of us revel in Valentine's Day celebrations--and actually enjoy writing cute messages on cards, picking favorite sayings out of giant piles of candy hearts, and donning lacy underthings--some of us aren't exactly sold on the most loving day of the year. (And some of us, if we're honest about it, think that candy hearts taste like chalk.)

For many of us, V-Day is bittersweet at best, the day when we're haunted by memories of Valentine's past--bad gifts, misconstrued intentions, poorly-timed breakups--even if they happened when we were in the third grade. For others, it's a precious day--an engagement anniversary, a time to make crafts with little ones, or just a day to say an extra "I love you."

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Laura Motta
Producer, Momtourage