how do you balance the needs of your kids with the needs of your hubby?

What do you do when your toddler refuses to eat anything but chicken nuggets?

Is there really such a thing as ME time? If so, how do I find it?

I want to look stylish and sophisticated when I leave the house, but my wardwrobe also needs to be comfortable and convenient. For instance, I cant wear white because my kids will spill something on me within 5 minutes. I cant wear skirts because my daughter will constantly lift it up. What would you suggest I wear to feel like a hot, confidently-dressed mom without worrying about food on my shirt or flashing my undies?

My daugther is 8 months and she has a really bad temper. and I don't know what to do about it.

Hi Tori ! I am 28 weeks pregnant with my second daughter ( first girl Lorelei is 20 months) I'm having a hard time with terrible twos and not using my yelling voice while i'm pregnant. no's don't work and i'm so tired with no help ya know ? i don't want to have my baby early, but i'm stressed. any advice ? p.s. i'm also trying potty training right now, any suggestions for a prego ? you're great! thank you so much :)

Just wanted to say that your children are beautiful! You should be so proud!

hi tori i just want to say i am a big fan of youres how do you find time for youre hubby when you work and a mom of 2 little ones

Do you feel guilty about breaking up another woman's marriage? Are you worried that your husband might stray in the future?

hi tori! first off your a great mom i never miss a show or interview... you need a cape! my big problem is my 9 month old lil girl jillian will not go to bed ever. How did you get buggie and monkey lol in to a bed time routine?

my baby is two years old and doesnt want to eat anything. eats a tablespoon thts all. what do i do to get him to eat?

Hi Tori. I have an 8 year old son and a 14 month old daughter. What do you suggest that I do to keep either one of my children from getting jealous when I am paying attention to one (I.e. Helping my son with his homework, taking care of her needs when she is crying or getting into something) a little bit more than the other?

Sadly, I wonder what kind of advice someone with your morals could actually offer? It is completely ok to wreck someone else's home? Adultery is a good thing? Seriously, how pathetic you are.

what has been the hardest challenge with having two children close in age?

can you please tell dean i love it when he calls himself a "tool". i have a 3yr old little boy and a 5mon. old baby girl, and my husband is also a tool! ive been reallity tv obsessed since the begining of time, and my question for you is arent you worried about the curse reallity tv has had on married couples?

I had a c-section like you. I have a pouch from my uterus stretching. how do i get it flat to look sexy like you?

Hi Tori! You are one hot mama! I think you look great after your last pregnancy and I am so envious. I am a new mom to my 10month old baby girl, Kaylee, and I still havent lost all the baby weight. Seriously, almost a year has gone by and I feel like a fat pig! What is your workout routine so that I can follow it ?

I am right there with the chicken nuggets question! I have 3 kids (21, 18, and 3!)... My 3-year-old gets "too tired" to eat anything other than chicken strips / nuggets / fingers... What do you do with your adorable babies????

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How do you do it Super Mom! Tori you are so awesome. I had a 1pd 11 oz baby boy in late March. He was suppose to be born today 6-15-09. I got really sick and almost didn't make it. But I did. I guess I have a lot of guardian angels "up there" I still have my baby weight and need your tips to help get it off. Because you look amazing after having your sweet baby girl. Thank you for all that you do. I really enjoy watching you and your family on Tori and Dean. You have a wonderful Family.

New life Mama,
Cindy

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Thanks Tori, for your great advice. I find it very useful since this is my first time on ivillage. Your answers were very interesting.

Hi Tori!

can you tell me where I can purchase those adorab;e headbands and knitted winter hat that Stella wears.
Also, where you purchase that gorgeous green long sleeve blouse.

thank you

Where can I find your Tori Spelling skin care line?

Expert Mom at MommyAdviceColumn.com says that it takes 9 months to gain weight when you are pregnant and 9 months to lose it after the baby. Do you agree?

How did you come up with the names of your children? And have you visited MEXtraordinary.com? Thanks.

HI Tori, I love your show I have 4 daughters 11,8,6,11mo and my 3 oldest girls like to see you on 90210 yor a great mom and yes i give my childern candy

First of all Tori, I love your show!! You are truly blessed to have such a beautiful family.
My son is 9 months old and has a really bad temper, what would you suggest? I want to discipline him but at the same time I don't want him to throw tantrums everytime I tell him no.
Thanks so much and I will continue to watch your show!!

dear doctor my wife pragadent to 3month two weeks , she go to medical check up but doctor said scan to chest and heart in side have to hole , so what can i do or pleace tell to urgent

Hey tori! I'm a mom of 2 boys under 2 ( 20 months old and 2 months old) MY 20 month old MJ isn't speaking as much as i thought he would be by now, he gets so easily frustrated throughout the day because I never know what he means with his little own language. and now that our second son Caleb has arrived he is regressing a bit and not really into his brother, how do I help MJ with his English and when did Liam start to acknowledge Stella? I know all kids are different , our pediatrician isn't worried about anything yet, I would just like his to be able to communicate so we can have less meltdowns throughout the day

tori,
what tips do you have for getting the kids to sleep while traveling? i always have a rough time with my baby throughout the night when we are in a hotel. i love your show!

I went through the same mom thing with my mom... I have not seen her in 11 years, I thought for me it would be best to move on.. I have always done everything without a mom.. for a long time... I wish I had a grandma for my kids like I had... Watching you and I know its TV but how do you do what you do without your mom.. and how do you feel when others dont understand the connection that you feel for her inspite of what she does or how she acts? Its nice to know that Im not the only one who had a childhood like I had seeing how you explain yours... and the comment about how your mom wouldnt let you play with certain dolls... made me laugh..Oh God thats my mom... I think it made me a better mommy and you too...

CAN YOU HELP ME?

Me and my boyfriend have been togethter for 1 and half years now and he wants to have a baby. I do aswell but i want to get college out of the way first. i am stuck on what to decide because i want a baby but i also want to get college over and done with first. So what should i do? please help.