Momtourage > Need Advice? > Search Page

SEARCH Q&As

Janine
Sarna-Jones
The Organizer
Bio
View Questions
Eileen
Behan
The NutritionistBio
View Questions
Natalie
Gahrmann
The Life Coach Bio
View Questions
Curt Hinson
The Child Fitness Expert
Bio
View Questions
Tanya Remer
Altmann
The Pediatrician
Bio
View Questions
Andrea Messina
The Practical Mom
Bio
View Questions
Denene Millner
The Real-Talk Mom
Bio
View Questions
Cindy Post Senning
The Etiquette Expert
Bio
View Questions
Marilyn Augustyn
The Behavioral Pediatrician
Bio
View Questions

Results tagged “sleep habits” from Momtourage: Need Advice?

THE QUESTION :

My 8-year-old daughter still sleeps with me. I love having her with me, but I know she needs to sleep in her own bed. My mom died ten days after my daughter was born and I've really been over protective of her, so it's hard to let go. My daughter is also shy and doesn't have many friends outside of family. She cries or stays up all night unable to sleep when I try to put her in her own bed. What should I do?
 

THE ANSWER:

You don't fully define the members of your family outside of yourself and your daughter. Is her father involved? Does he have an opinion on the co-sleeping? My sense is that perhaps your nuclear family consists only of you and your daughter, and the situation has been going on for a very long time -- perhaps the entire eight years of your daughter's life.

More


Marilyn Augustyn
THE QUESTION :

My two-year-old has always been a good sleeper, usually going down at 7:30 p.m. and sleeping until 7 a.m. Recently, he's been waking up every two hours screaming. He doesn't have a fever or any signs of a cold or flu, but he is drooling up a storm and seems like he's in pain. When I ask him where it hurts, he always points to his mouth. Would something as simple as a new tooth cause this much stress? He seems so upset. He's not complaining during the day, so I'm baffled.
 

THE ANSWER:

Since you have a history of a consistent bedtime routine and your toddler previously slept well, it does sound like something is causing him discomfort and disrupting his night. He's at the right age for teething and some toddlers do experience quite a bit of pain as teeth poke their way through sensitive gums...ouch!

More


Tanya Remer Altmann
THE QUESTION :

I have a 10-month-old, and she wakes up at 6:30 every morning, extremely active and ready to crawl around and play. I have a very hard time going to bed at the same time she does, and I don't get much sleep. When she wakes up early, I feel automatically angry and impatient. I've tried to put her in her playpen so I can lie back down, but she'll scream for me until I take her out of it. I feel like I'm not being fair to her, but I also feel like I'm having the life sucked out of me at the same time. Please help.
 

THE ANSWER:

I'm sorry you have an early riser, and I know it's exhausting, but 6:30 is when some children wake up. While you can try black-out curtains, an earlier or later bedtime, and even ignoring the crying, it may not make much difference. She's had a full night of sleep and now it is morning and that means playtime! As my son says, "The world is bright. Get up!"

More


Tanya Remer Altmann
THE QUESTION :

My 6-year-old son has been sleepwalking, and it scares me. Will he grow out of this? Also, does it mean that he's stressed or upset? He has no recollection of it the next morning. What can I do to help him?
 

THE ANSWER:

Sleepwalking is common, especially in kids ages 4 to 8. We don't know what causes sleepwalking, but it does tend to run in families.

More


Tanya Remer Altmann
THE QUESTION :

My 15-month-old son is co-sleeping with my husband and I. We've tried everything to get him into his own bed. He will cry and scream for hours and then vomit in his crib. It kills me. My husband doesn't mind him sleeping with us, but I am not getting any rest. (My husband sleeps through anything.) We pulled down the side rail of his crib, thinking that he might be afraid of being locked in, but he won't nap or sleep in it. Help!

THE ANSWER:

No matter how you choose to address the co-sleeping issue, it's critical that you and your husband are in agreement. Talk out any options first and make a decision to support each other. This won't be easy, but after a week or two of difficult nights, most children make the adjustment smoothly.

More


Marilyn Augustyn
THE QUESTION :

My second grader always needs lots of encouragement to get up for school. Should I get him an alarm clock? I'd love to wake him more gently, but I've tried everything I can thing of. Any advice?
 

THE ANSWER:

As the mom of three rather balky waker-uppers, I feel for you. I bought an alarm clock for one of my kids. And he took to it with great enthusiasm, cheerfully setting the alarm for the next morning. Yes, it did manage to wake him. But then my son climbed back into bed and pulled the covers over his head. So, in all, a mixed verdict.

 

More


Andrea Messina

 
ARCHIVES
RSS
 
FEATURED MOM MOMENTS

Name inspiration comes when you least expect it.

She's not a little baby anymore.

Plastic bag disposal is easy and free!

ADVICE DIRECTORY
Behavior
Title

Expert Section | Expert Section | Expert Section | Expert Section | Expert Section | Expert Section | Expert Section | Expert Section | Expert Section | Expert Section